Renee Adams, CPC
Christian Trauma Trained Certified Professioal Coach
864-735-0876
renee@havenofhopecoaching.com
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Haven of hope
coaching
Supporting women through betrayal trauma.
...when you can't see your way through the pain of being betrayed by your partner through infidelity, addiciton to pornography, or any other unwanted sexual behavior.
Is my entire life a lie?
Am I crazy?
What is wrong with me?
How did I not know?
I feel so alone.
God. Please help me.
I'm so ashamed.
Who can I trust?
I am shattered.
It hurts too much.
This can't be true.
How did I not see?
What now?
What is betrayal trauma?
Betrayal Trauma is your body's response (physically, emotionally, spiritually, and mentally) to having your trust violated by the very person you trust the most.
When the foundation and the walls of your most intimate relationship are shattered, you find yourself in a whirlwind of disbelief and despair.
Betrayal trauma sets you spinning into a state of brokenness, isolation, imbalance, and confusion.Your world as you knew it no longer exists. You're not safe.
Your body responds by kicking into high gear, in an ability to save and protect yourself. But, safety seems out of reach.
And, the cycle repeats. Our bodies were not meant to endure this type of trauma for long periods of time. Days. Weeks. Months. Years.
It may have happened once, or it may still be happening, but there is a wound your body is still fighting to repair. You're exhausted. You don't know what to do next.
Your joy is covered with a cloud of darkness and your mind blanketed with a heavy fog that never seems to dissipate.
Don't lose hope. Your joy is coming. Light is ahead.
You are strong.
You are brave.
You have value and beauty, Amidst the rubble around you.
Beautiful Friend,
You may feel crushed down, but you are not destroyed!
You are not crazy; though nothing makes sense.
You are not alone, though you feel there is no one.
There is rest for you, though it may feel as though despair blinds you on all sides.
There. Is. Hope.
the suffering is deep and the feeling of total loss and hopelessness can make it hard to breathe.
the longing to be comforted and reassured is ever present and simultaneously unreachable.
But, there is restoration ahead. He is growing you up in strength and making you to stand on solid ground again.
You didn’t ask for what happened, for this pain, or for the road that lay ahead.
But, you get to decide what you need today to feel safe and whole.
The first step to reach out for support can be oh so hard and takes immense courage.
find safety.
find peace.
reveal your limitless value.
Lift the veil between trauma and joy.
Client Testimonials
Renee is an exceptional human, both in terms of her calm nature and dedication to ensuring you are always feeling supported. Her own commitment to her personal growth guides her natural ability to talk through the challenges
and turn them into opportunities.
She listens intently and helped me step back to evaluate where my thoughts and beliefs were coming from in order for me to feel empowered to move forward. I am genuinely grateful that Renee came into my life and know that she will continue to make an incredible mark on the lives she touches through her coaching.
Jennifer K.
Renee helped me see life with more clarity and awareness. She has a compassionate ear, is present, and uses her experiences to guide you through your journey. I highly recommend her!
MaryJane M.
Not only does Renee have the extraordinary ability to open your eyes to valuable new perspectives, she is also able to help create numerous awarenesses that allow you to successfully navigate through life's roadblocks. I feel fortunate to have come across a coach who is so compassionate, dedicated, and deeply committed to helping her clients.
Khadija S.
Beloved,
I see you. But, more importantly God sees you. Maybe you've trusted people; people that should have helped you, that left you feeling even more alone. I want you to know that the violation of trust and safety against you is not okay. And, it's not okay with Yahweh.
I want to partner with Him to come along side you, as He binds your wounds in a way no one else can. I want to share a sacred space with you and with him, without judgement or expectations. a place of safety.
When you are ready, I ask to humbly walk with you, as you take one step at a time and begin to navigate these unstoppable waves of trauma that seem as though they will never end.
~Renee
Take one brave step at a time out of the dark fog and into the light of joy that is coming.
hh
Haven of hope
coaching
864-735-0876
reneeadams@havenofhopecoaching.com